What If?

What If?

What if you can’t do things like others?

What if you are not as good as others?

What if you are not as cool as others?

What if you can’t command a presence like others?

What if you are not as pretty as others? Continue reading

Advertisements

University Life: Things I would have done differently + Extra tips

University Life: Things I would have done differently + Extra tips

Hi guys,

My graduation is coming up soon and I’m a bit or maybe not excited. Anyway, I studied Medical Laboratory Science at the University of Cape Coast (UCC), Ghana and my graduation was supposed to hold between 28th to 30th of September but I heard last week that it has been shifted to between 19th to 21st of October, depending on the day my faculty falls on.

Continue reading

Is it right for a man to hit a woman?

Follow my blog with Bloglovin

Is it right for a man to hit a woman?

Is it right for a man to hit a woman or a guy to hit a girl?

Yesterday when I came back from work, just right after I had settled in, my brother brought up this question, is it right to hit a woman? Of course my mom, my sister and I answered that it wasn’t right to hit a girl. He then asked what if the lady provokes the man or probably slaps the man, wouldn’t it be justified?

We all argued (everyone in the house) and it was fun and enlightening. At the end of it all, I learned some things and also thought out things too from the discussion and I’d like to share them Continue reading

Hello August 

496895f8dbe57d77200e8dc4d6ef25e5--hello-august-august-th

​Hey guys, it’s a new month, Happy New Month! I’m a bit excited about this month, why? Because July is gone and I can’t wait to see what August holds, whether good or ugly, but c’mon I’d love mostly the good lol and I’m positive. Well July has been somewhat good, had its ups and downs, but in all I’d say I learned a lot and most importantly, I grew.

So, I’d like to share some of the things I’ve learned.

I started a blog, Continue reading

Can someone vouch for you?

Stamps

Image by  Tamela Hancock Murray

I have ever been in a situation where I was accused of not greeting someone (Nigerians can sha take greeting personal). The person was like didn’t you see me? So you can’t greet, a young girl like you and so on. Sincerely, right there, I couldn’t even remember if I greeted her or not because I was busy (I think) but I know I greet a lot (Has someone ever dragged your ears when you were a kid for not greeting? Continue reading

Did I Offend You? 

 

On Sunday, I spoke rudely to someone and the funny thing is truthfully I didn’t know I was rude until my sister later told me I sounded rude. I felt bad though because that wasn’t my intention and I knew I sounded that way because I wasn’t in a good mood plus I had a lot on my mind. I immediately apologized.

Sometimes people do things to others they don’t even realize they did. Some may be quite aware of what they did but others truly don’t know you might have been offended by their attitude or words. Continue reading

Emotional Insecurity

Hey guys, today’s post is something interesting and personally, I’m excited to be writing on this. Before I begin, I’d like to welcome y’all to Quirks and Pearls. You can know more about my blog here. OK, back to the matter.

What is emotional insecurity? According to Wikipedia, this is a feeling of general unease or nervousness that may be triggered by perceiving of oneself to be Continue reading